Women and fiction remain, so far as I am concerned, unsolved problems.

I do not wish them [women] to have power over men; but over themselves.

I had yet to learn that when it came to gender, I was both and neither.

In ethics of life, the gender that are much discussed, are favourites.

You are not male or female, but a plandeep-set within the heart of man.

All of my books are acts of subversion disguised as historical fiction.

I'm self-taught. I didn't just become a man, it was a decision.

It occurred to me that as a man I could do anything, everything I wanted.

Anything may happen when womanhood has ceased to be a protected occupation.

It's a good thing I was born a girl, otherwise I'd be a drag queen.

Boys dream of strippers, men dream of their women waiting for them at home.

Marriage should be between a spouse and a spouse, not a gender and a gender.

The difference between men and women is getting harder and harder to invent.

Literalness, however, is not the substance from which human culture is made.

…gender is not sane. It's not sane to call a rainbow black and white.