As soon as we met, she probably imagined herself marrying me. Then within five minutes, she was probably already envisioning divorce.

There's nothing more devastating in a marriage than when a spouse puts their work, their desires above their partner's heart.

In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find and continue to find grounds for marriage.

Flannel shirts should be outlawed for ex husbands; I realize this now. Flannel shirts are to women what crotchless panties are to men.

Allowing a person or thing to leave your life, without further pain is the basis of humanity. Everything else is the reason (theology).

I was physically attacked by a woman who didn’t even know me. Yes, my boyfriend was her former husband, but she tried to ruin me.

Mistakes are great teachers. They are stern, confident and fierce inredirecting you from what you should not do; to what you should do.

(On getting married at 19) We told ourselves we had forever and we never looked back. The problem was that we never really looked ahead.

Those who divorce aren't necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.

Marriage is what you make of it, and God has many versions of what that looks like based on what different souls need, in order to grow.

This very easy divorce had become very difficult. I thought I was in the express lane and it was all fast tracks from there. Think again.

I could only defend myself so much. It was my word against his. There was no evidence, nor was there any proof. My word meant very little.

It is better to lock up your heart with a merciless padlock, than to fall in love with someone who doesn't know what they mean to you.

Trust is the bedrock of intimacy; it is the ability to rely on someone because you believe that he or she has your best interest at heart.

I built my ex wife a Castle of Love, and she dug a moat and filled it with sharks and lawyers. Oh well, at least I got to keep the unicorn.